10 Simple Ways to Be the Father Your Child Needs in 2025

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Superman used to be my childhood superhero, and I have always thought Batman was pretentious and not worth the hype, but I digress. Black Panther is my current super hero and when Chadwick Boseman personified him in his own heroic ways, that was a wrap. In a previous blog "Beyond Super-Dad: You are the Hero Your Child Needs in 2025" I encouraged you to trade that super-dad cape for your favorite t-shirt, and head outside with your kid(s) to make memories. Building on that challenge to move beyond the "super-dad" myth, here are 10 straightforward, achievable practices any father can implement this year in the lifelong quest to live out the hero that your child needs:

1. The "Good Morning" Connection

·  Start each day by making eye contact with your child

·  Share a simple greeting, hug, or fist bump

·  Even a quick text to a child living elsewhere counts

2. The Daily Question

·  Ask one meaningful question each day

·  Keep it simple: "What made you smile today?"

·  Actually listen to their answer, without reaching for your phone or trying to teach

them something

3. The Emotion Check-In

·  Share one of your own feelings daily

·  Use basic emotion words: "I felt frustrated at work today"

·  Normalize emotional expression for your children

4. The Weekly One-on-One

·  Spend 15 uninterrupted minutes with each child

·  Let them choose the activity

·  Put your phone away during this time, after all, it is their 15 minutes with you

5. The Bedtime Minute

·  Create a simple nighttime ritual

·  Could be as basic as saying "I love you" each night

·  For non-custodial fathers, a goodnight text or voice message works too

6. The "I'm Sorry" Practice

·  Apologize when you make mistakes

·  Keep it simple and sincere. Don't offer and excuse, just apologize

·  Show them it's okay to be imperfect

7. The Quiet Presence

·  Sit with them while they do homework

·  Watch them play their video games

·  Just be there, no pressure to talk, no judgement, no attempt to teach any lesson

8. The Regular Check-In

·  Set reminders to contact your child

·  Maintain consistent communication

·  Quality matters more than quantity

9. The Pride Moment

·  Notice one thing to compliment daily

·  Focus on effort rather than results

·  Be specific in your praise

10. The Self-Care Example

·  Take care of your own mental health

·  Let your kids see you resting when

needed

·  Show them it's okay to prioritize well-

being

Above all, remember, consistency in these small actions matters more than perfection. Choose one or two to start with and gradually add more as they become habits. These simple practices can strengthen your bond with your child while making fatherhood feel more manageable and meaningful.

COPYRIGHT 2024 BY DR. ALVIN THOMAS. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. THIS MATERIAL MAY NOT BE PUBLISHED, BROADCAST, REWRITTEN OR REDISTRIBUTED WITHOUT WRITTEN PERMISSION.

Now It's Your Turn, Fathers!

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